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Many single people try to know the opinions of married people and ask their views on their experience with marriage, so they ask them several questions centered on whether there is a positive difference between single life and married life. Is marriage considered a winning or losing project? Do married people feel happy in general and with their wives in particular? Which of the two situations is better: remaining single or getting married?!
Answers and viewpoints vary:
Some of them see marriage as a beautiful project, where the married person feels stable and free of psychological disturbance and loneliness...
Some believe that marriage is a necessary evil!!! Taking on responsibilities and enduring the hardship of taking care of the family and its endless requirements disturbs the serenity of the velvety atmosphere and takes away the sweetness of the melodies of feelings that play between the spouses.
There are those who yearn for the world of celibacy; To fly freely away from the golden cage, as some people like to call marriage, for whatever it is, it will remain a cage that restricts many of the husband’s activities that he was practicing before getting involved in it, and as some say that “marriage is a mistake and a predicament, and longevity is a bond, it hurts, it disappoints, or it answers.” deep vein thrombosis"
And through those confused answers; Single people feel confused in the face of this contradiction and worrying data about the future of marriage!!
We can offer several reasons to explain these puzzling answers:
-The newness of marriage: Many married couples are still like a new student entering the first grade. They yearn for celibacy, where there is lightness of responsibilities, unilateral decision-making, and freedom of movement. Some also find it difficult to adapt to the new life and its suddenness. This depends on the nature of the partner, so they need to gradually achieve harmony with them.
- Misconception about married life: Some people - for example - reduce the marriage plan to the wedding days and the honeymoon, and as soon as the serious phase begins and the undertaking of responsibilities and tasks begins, they feel burdened and appear upset and complain about their intention to marry.
-Inappropriate choice: Secondary standards such as academic degrees, beauty, and material wealth, which preoccupy young men before marriage, and their leniency in adopting basic standards such as morality, religiosity, chastity, and maturity, often leave married couples in a great shock. After marriage, he may discover that his wife is not disciplined by the values of chastity and hijab, for example. Or that she is lazy, harsh-tongued, arrogant, or a spendthrift who does not take into account the level of his financial income, or that her family interferes in their personal lives and controls their privacy.
-The difficult economic situation: Most young people live with financial worries that make them exhale regrets and feel embarrassed and distressed by the lack of job opportunities suitable for their situation, in terms of self-employment or employment in institutions and departments. This is one of the biggest factors that destroy the hopes of young people and make They cry, especially regretting their attempt to marry If they are experiencing a severe housing crisis or suffering from chronic diseases...
-Family problems: As soon as days pass, the series of daughter-in-law and aunt problems begins between themselves or with the husband’s family. Serious problems arise and the frequency of quarrels escalates, and bouts of rivalry over household tasks, or jealousy, envy, or interfering in each other's privacy, which makes life bitter for the couples.
Perhaps there are other realistic reasons that explain this contradiction in the answers of married people, which confuse single people.
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