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The most important thing you can give your children is to create the best possible sibling relationship among them.
There are many ways to raise brothers, and they range from completely separating them to creating a close, conscious connection between them. If the second option is your goal, your children will be each other's best friends for life; When they reach adulthood, your children will need a strong, balanced relationship with their siblings just as they need their relationships with their parents, which unfortunately are not equal (not because the parents are of a higher status than their children, but rather because the relationship between the two parties is not equal, and it should not be so). ..The possible thing that we all hope for is that brothers will remain close to each other even long after you have left this world.
I know families whose members are spread around the world, but if one of its members happens to get into trouble, you will find that he knows that he can rely on his brothers, even if they are on different continents. If this is the situation in which you want to raise your children (which is your goal, of course), then you should start preparing for this matter now.
There are many ways to help you create strong bonds between your children. The first is that you can declare your complete rejection of the process of snitching between them (your sister may have already left the tap running, but you should not snitch on her; it is not right), and this sends a strong message. Tell your children that you value good intentions between them.
Then you can encourage them to help each other: (I'm not very good at math, but I'm sure your brother Sam can help you with your homework), and if they behave well, you can reward them collectively - everyone gets a reward for showing up to lunch together. Talk to all of them, whether at meal times or in the car, and tell them what is going on in your life: (Your grandparents are coming to visit us and stay with us over the weekend), as they get older. Involve them in family decisions, such as choosing where the vacation will be or what color it will be. Paint the bathroom. It is also important to erase any sense of competition or jealousy between your children...
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