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When you want to command your son to do something, or you want to forbid him from doing all the actions that you do not like, or any other matter that you don’t want your son to be in disagreement with you, and have the same opinion that agrees with your thinking and approach, what is the way to do that?
And with a question, how do you manage leading your son?
Before answering this question, let the respected reader ask himself:
Do you see how a person can smooth the leadership of another person? In what way and what style?
Exactly.. This is how you can control the leadership of your children or any other person.
Perhaps many people reach this conclusion, and this saying that we affirm is that there is only one way to get your son to accept a certain action.
Those are to make him love the business you propose to him.
Yes, you can make your child do your will if you wave a whip or a stick at him! And you can make your employee do what you order him to do, until you turn your back on him, but these methods are not wise in anything.
The only guiding way that makes your children accept work - any work - is to make that work beloved to them.
A child, or rather a person, cannot perform an action with self-impulsiveness and effectiveness without believing in that action.
No one can believe in something unless he loves that thing and knows its necessity.
One of the educational scholars says: (When you like the thing that you want from your son...then there is nothing wrong with issuing your orders).
From here, if you want - for example - to make your son to remain calm, then the best way to do so is to appoint him at home responsible for maintaining calmness. After you have shown him the benefits of silence and the harms of chaos and gossip.
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