It's hard to let the boy act alone. Most parents not only have to step aside and make room for the son to build his own life, but they have to trust this still young and incompetent son to go out into the world and make good decisions. The stakes are very real and parents often cling to the child long and hard in an effort to prevent the beloved son from making mistakes.
Self-reliance, confidence, and independence are qualities that can only be acquired in the real world. Your son will learn to stand on his feet if you allow him to practice that. If you start when he's young, he can learn to rely on himself in safe surroundings before the stakes become too great.
And in case you were wondering, record the following information: Your son will not be perfect, no matter how wonderful, loving and talented he is. All he needs to be is to become good enough in his relationships, his work, and his ability to solve problems.
Your son will have the courage to tackle new challenges, whether at work, relationships, university, or what awaits him in the future, when you build a strong relationship with him, encourage him, educate him, and then believe in his ability to manage his life by himself. Making sure you say, "I believe in you and I believe you can succeed," can make all the difference to a boy who's just set out into the world alone.
Over the years you'll spend together, there will be moments when you step in to help and moments when you have to step back and make room for him. And as your son enters the real world, you can let him go, knowing that he is capable of learning, growing and succeeding.
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