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Several years ago, a group of physicians, psychiatrists, and researchers began examining an important question. It seemed that the rates of behavioral and emotional problems among American children and teenagers were on the rise, and no one could explain the reason, knowing that the financial situation was improving in the country. Why do children suffer more?
Many who have observed Americans in the twenty-first century have noticed that the pace of family life is accelerating at an alarming rate. It is common (and often necessary) today for the father and mother to work outside the home and for children to spend a large part of their life years in care centers. Even when the family gets together, there seems to be no time for real communication. Everyone has their own TV, computer, cell phone, and chores. Work follows the parents' home, while the children are busy with outdoor activities and homework. Multitasking is fine unless parenting becomes just another task on the to-do list.
More than 8% of high school students in the United States suffer from severe depression; American children suffer from anxiety today more than psychiatric patients in the fifties, and 21% of American children between the ages of nine and seventeen suffer from mental disorders or addiction. These problems can result from a lack of communication with adults.
There are many ways to help children develop a healthy sense of belonging and importance. Among these methods: encouragement, listening, spending time together, effective and respectful education, and teaching the skills necessary for life. But let's go back to the beginning and take a look at the first moments of life with your son.
Communicate with your son
Researchers say today that the human brain is programmed from birth for a specific task: to communicate with other brains. If you are the mother of a boy, that means you. Alan Score, MD of the David Geffen School of Medicine at the University of California, Los Angeles, puts it this way: “We are born to form connections, and our brains are wired to evolve in tandem with other brains through emotional communication that begins before we speak.” In other words, your son needs to communicate with you as much as he needs food, safety, and shelter. When you hold him, rock him, and look into his eyes, you help his brain develop the set of systems needed for future relationship and learning. You may remember that children of boys are more vulnerable than girls on the emotional and physical levels. Your son needs a lot of tenderness, time, attention in order to grow and mature.
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