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Mothers, your child is near you, and he has pinned his hopes on you, waiting for your love and mercy. He does not see around him who is closer to him than you. With these hopes, what is your position and responsibility? You have to answer all of that honestly.
On one hand, you are his mother, and on the other hand, his guardian, you have the task of raising him, and at the same time you have to strive to compensate him for the void created by the loss of his father. His upbringing and guidance are better through love and compassion, for his sake and the necessities of his life on the one hand, and because this behavior facilitates the process of raising the children the other hand.
In most cases, we find that the evil doings and crimes of children and young people arise because of their loss of sincere love and compassion, and because sometimes after losing their father or mother, they did not have the opportunity to compensate these affections.
You have to love the child in a way that he believes that his mother really loves him, and this is something worth trying and working to achieve.
Pampering your baby:
One of the usual things is to pamper the child, which builds and brings him up naturally. The child needs his mothers' kind touch in order to feel the pleasure and sometimes, as a result of this, he falls asleep.
How many pour out their frustration and worries on their child, who cannot bear this situation. Being scolded at school and scolded by playmates breaks the Childs heart and changes his condition. When the mother asked him about his condition with love and pampering, she would calm him down and relieve him of the pressures.
There is no doubt that pampering and love are required in a way that does not cause the child to be excessively sensitive and painful. The root of the subject is balance and moderation.
Dangers arising from a lack of emotion:
It is mentioned in the Islamic hadiths that we seek to preserve the etiquette and care of children, to pamper them and have mercy on them in order to bring happiness to their hearts. There are many recommendations that linked the satisfaction of the child's emotions with love, and the slightest negligence in this area may lead to the child's affliction with psychological issues, and in the future he may become a dangerous individual. Most of the criminals were children who were deprived of emotion, and the door of love and hope was not opened before them.
Scientific investigations have proven that lack of affection is a reason for the child's incompatibility with society and affects him in his youth. Compensating for this deficiency is very difficult, and the complexes that arise in childhood are difficult to solve and lift later, so parents must strive to prevent the child from falling into this complex.
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