Hostility in children indicates an abnormal condition that indicates their urgent need for more care, attention and affection from their parents. It also indicates the presence of a type of deviation related to the environment in which they live. Aggressive behavior in children can be corrected in the following ways:
First: Love the child: Parents and educators must make the child understand that they love him/her and it does not matter to them whether he/she is ugly or beautiful, a girl or a boy, docile or naughty, but what is important to them is changing his/her wrong behavior to gain more of their love and satisfaction.
Second: Removing obstacles and deprivation: We must strive to know the reason or reasons that contribute to provoking the tendency towards aggression in children, and work to remove it by correcting them, or at least trying to limit its negative effects on them when it is impossible to remove it.
Third: Play: Sometimes it is possible to distract the child and divert him/her from his/her tendency towards hostility by encouraging him/her to play and have fun. The child's participation in various sports activities has positive effects in reducing his conditions and even correcting his behavior.
Fourth: Isolation: When his hostile tendencies become intense, it becomes necessary to avoid him and isolate him or keep him away from others, due to the possibility of him harming them.
It is true that keeping him away from the place he is in, and warning others not to approach him makes him angrier, but it seems to be a necessary method to avoid harming them, and in addition to this it helps to return the child to his normal state after a few moments.
Fifth: Interrogation: In some situations, it may be necessary to interrogate the child to find out the reasons behind his hatred for a certain person, and what is the behavior that upset him?
It is clear from studies that disclosing what is hidden is in itself an outlet, if he does it, he feels relatively comfortable after it. There is no doubt that disclosing the reason for the suffering helps the parents to know the reasons for his aggressive tendencies.
Sixth: Threats: If the aforementioned methods do not work, and sermons, advice and guidance do not have an effect, then you must resort to the method of threats and intimidation, and inform the child that he will receive strict punishment and be deprived of his privileges if he does not return to his senses and persists in violence and harm.
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