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There are fathers and mothers who do not hesitate to hit their children because of their misbehavior. Despite this, sometimes some blows are not as harmful to the body as they are to the heart and soul.
Some parents put food for their children in containers that resemble animal food containers. Some unusual parents even serve food to children in a dirt scoop, or something similar, or the father spits in his child’s face, or strips him naked in the street. Such children usually become hot-tempered and have bad morals, and their actions are thoughtless and confusing. On the one hand, they are not actually bad, except that hatred and lack of desire for anything drives them towards deviance, and they often appear as criminals, because these children, as a form of moral pride, want to take revenge on the people who torture them. Therefore, perhaps, they did not care about the mercy they received, just as any warning would be of no use to them.
(Watching young children on the one hand, and studying a large number of adults who were unable to create a strong personality for themselves on the other hand, leaves no doubt that there is a direct and undeniable relationship between their behavior in adulthood, and the psychological traumas and emotional deprivation in their childhood...
All studies, observations and investigations have led to the conclusion that the weakness and inability of adults to bear normal problems and pain in daily life is due to the fact that during childhood they were subjected to severe deprivation. For this reason, the spirit of rebellion and hatred grew more and more in them.
Physical and spiritual nourishment for the child:
Respecting the child is like spiritual nourishment and psychological building for him, and if it is not more important than nourishment for the body, it is certainly no less important. Lack of food reduces the normal growth of the child. A lack of nourishment for the soul leads to a deficiency in the development of the child’s soul, and a child who suffers from a lack of complete nourishment for the body and spirit during childhood is afflicted with various symptoms in adolescence, with the difference that the symptoms of a lack of body nourishment relate to the person himself, and their effects appear on him. But the lack of spiritual nourishment means a lack of respect for the child. Not only does his soul not grow properly and he suffers from ominous symptoms, but also those around him suffer and are tormented by his bad behavior and bad morals.
People who suffered belittlement, hurt feelings and humiliation in childhood, or grew up in deprivation with constant disagreement and quarrels between their parents. During their failed development, they suffered from anger and nervous diseases. In their youth, they have a hostile nature and do not understand each other. They have bad thoughts about everyone and everything, their minds are full of offensive and vengeful thoughts, and they are always on the verge of committing crimes
Unequal behavior of parents:
Some ignorant fathers and mothers behave unequally with their children, caring for one of them more than others, and singling out kindness, love, clothing, and food more than others. By their wrong behavior, they despise a child and sow the seeds of hatred and hostility within him. When this child reaches the age of youth, he becomes vulnerable to violations and abuse due to emotional imbalances and bitter memories of childhood.
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