The correct educational process depends on a program that is clear in its rules and system, so that the educator can succeed in guiding the children and addressing the problems. Without a program, or not adhering to it despite its existence, the results of the educational process will not be sound, if the children fall into deviant paths far from righteousness!
The ignorance of educators of the consequences of any guidance or any reaction from them towards their children may cause the children to fall into major behavioral and psychological problems, the burden of which is borne only by the children themselves.
In order for parents to understand the consequences of adopting violence as a means of guiding their children, we provide several highlights on this, which may contribute to establishing educational awareness:
- Self-contempt: Children’s feelings of self-contempt begin to appear after they reach adulthood and realize the importance of self-esteem and honor. Sometimes the underlying reason behind their feelings may not be discovered, but they feel very much that they are not welcome among their friends or those who know them.
"A study revealed that trying to discipline children's behavior by hitting them and slapping them on the face can negatively affect their mood and behavior, and make them aggressive people at later stages of life."
- Shyness and its psychological consequences control them, such as avoiding meeting new people and difficulty speaking in front of others or doing a certain activity.
- Hesitation and confusion in choosing, some abused children often suffer from hesitation and lack of initiative, scattered thinking and difficulty in determining: (what does he want?), and he finds it difficult to overcome his fears.
- Hatred usually grows between the child and the person who abuses him, which affects the positive feelings that exist between the child and his family.
- The seed of fear and anxiety is planted in their souls, so they flee from confronting people and incidents, which makes them cowardly. They are also “more likely to develop anxiety disorders and depression, or may have difficulty integrating positively into school or developing self-regulation skills.”
- A study found that violence in parenting: “affects children’s development and increases the likelihood of developing mental health problems. It also increases the likelihood of affecting the child’s brain development and nature, leading to long-term damage.”
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