When you want to order your son to do something, or you want to forbid him from doing all the actions that you do not like in him, or any other matter that doesn't align with your thinking and approach... then what is the way to do this?
With a question: How do you make leading your son smooth?
Before answering this question, we let the respected reader wonder to himself: How can a person smoothly lead another person? In what way and style?
Exactly.. This is how you can smoothly lead your children or any other person.
Perhaps many people will reach this conclusion, and this is the statement that we confirm that there is only one way by which you can get your son to accept a certain job. That is: to make him like the job that you propose to him.
Yes, you can push your child to carry out your will if you wave a whip or a stick at him! but these methods are not wise at all.
The only guided way to make your children accept work - any work - is to make that work enjoyable for them.
A child, or rather a human being, cannot perform an action spontaneously and effectively without belief in that action.
No one can believe in something unless he loves that thing and knows its necessity.
One educational scientist says: (When you love the thing you want from your son...then there is no harm in you issuing your orders).
Hence, if you want, for example, to make your son remain calm, the best way to do that is to appoint him at home responsible for maintaining calm. After you have explained to him the benefits of silence and the harms of chaos and chatter.
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