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In this topic, we are not talking about raising your financial standard of living, but rather improving the way you live your life.
One of the best quoted quotes, from an anonymous source, puts it like this: “What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say.” We interpret that proverb to mean that our lives are in fact our greatest vocation. . The way we exercise our integrity, our honesty, our humility, as well as our sense of well-being, compassion, generosity, willingness to forgive, and many other noble qualities demonstrates more than anything else the kind of human being we are.
Applications for improving the way we live in our personal relationships are powerful and influential. As we raise our standards ourselves, others will also perceive and be affected by the changes that will occur in our lives. In other words, when we become less selfish and less greedy, others will be drawn to us. Because our ability to become more humble and more delicate will be noticed and felt by everyone who knows us.
I met Bruce shortly after his thirty-fifth birthday, and when I first met him he was complaining about his inability to maintain a good relationship with others, and he seemed to have nothing short of him as he was of good looks and good manners and had good health and a brilliant future. Many interesting hobbies and he had enough money to enjoy all of them. What's more, he was friendly and had a great sense of humor.
Where is the problem then?
After I spoke to him for less than an hour, it became clear to me that Bruce was very interested in himself. He liked to talk about himself and rarely asked about others. He liked to talk, but he was not a good listener. And it wasn't hard to understand why someone like Bruce, despite his many good qualities, would have trouble forming and lasting good relationships with others.
The good thing about this is that Bruce had enough humility and wisdom to realize that there must be something wrong with his personality and that he needed some help. Bruce went to a psychological counselor who convinced him that in addition to the many good qualities he had, he needed to work on strengthening his human skills. The counselor aimed to teach him how happy he would feel when listening to others, and thus increase his knowledge of others more closely.
By pure coincidence, I saw Bruce very quickly some years later, and was immediately shocked by the changes in him, and Bruce told me that over a period of time he had undergone a great fundamental change, and that his newly emerging concern for others and his listening skills had developed and turned him into a more generous, wise, and good person. company, and you could feel a different presence as he became calmer and more comfortable in his dealings with others and he seemed happy, and I was very pleased to know that he had engaged one of the girls and was preparing to complete the marriage, and it was easy to understand why he raised the level of his dealings in life.
For Bruce, raising the level of his relationships in life was centered around becoming less self-absorbed, and for others it could be about becoming less self-defensive and more tolerant, and for me there are many aspects of life that I want to raise. For example: I try to become more patient, less inclined to interrupt others, and become less irritable, just to name a few.
There is no arguing that elevating your life – whatever that means to you – will lead to many benefits in the nature of your relationships. You will see immediate results for every positive change you make, and there is no limit to how much you can change: because most of us have Many things to correct.
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