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The child wants to maintain his self-esteem and personal dignity, just like an adult. He suffers and gets very angry if someone hurts his dignity. If parents or educators want to issue orders to the children or prove their ability in a family setting, they must take into account the children’s dignity and act in a way that does not hurt their self-esteem. Or it destroys their personality, because speaking to them in a commanding tone and dealing with them harshly not only pushes them to rebel against orders, but also puts them in a position of opposition and hostility towards taking revenge on their parents.
“Will Durant” says: Issuing orders to a child arouses in him a spirit of resistance and aggression, and this rule is almost as immutable as Newton’s laws of motion. When we issue an order, we have affected the opposing party’s defensive weapons. If you make your request, it will be responded to, and if you command it will be rejected, so be kind to the child to gain his love and affection, then your request will have a greater impact.”
“Some parents who fail in love or suffer from a scarcity of money try to take revenge on their children by insulting, blaming and reproaching them. A helpless person finds his last refuge in dominating his children.
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