Pay attention, mothers and fathers, to the need to reduce unnecessary (automatic) scolding, and to reduce strict supervision over children. The child is not a machine that we manage as we like.
The child is often faced with many questions and commands: (Why are you laughing like that? Why do you walk like that?, Pronounce the words correctly, do not play with your hair, go and brush your teeth...etc.
All of this may be reflected in the child's psyche, generating a state of insecurity, or a loss of self-confidence.
The first child often gets the best luck from the greedy attention and strict control by the parents, then the parents soon feel that they have learned a lot from their first child, so they feel that they need to give their second child some freedom, so they behave with the second child with more confidence, unlike the first child.
The child feels a strong urge to fight for his freedom, he fights for his father to let him use the pen the way he likes... and he fights not to give up on wearing socks in the right way...
The basic truth is that the son needs to be loved and embraced, not trapped. And he needs care mixed with trust. And he needs to be taught everything new without forcing him to do it. Avoid criticism, bullying and slander.
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