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- Do not listen with your ears only, but with your entire body, stop the work you are doing from reading, or watching TV and look at your son.
- Try to have something of affection and touch, so put your hand on his shoulder or his hand between your hands.
- Make sure that you listen to what your son says, and feel what he feels in himself, then repeat to your son and in your own words what you heard from him, demonstrating your understanding and appreciation for what he said.
- Try to deduce the feelings that accompany his statements:
When he says: (I do not need you to repeat your orders), this means that he feels humiliated and small, as if he did not understand.
And when he says: (I hate school), this indicates that he is bored and unhappy.
And when he says: (He cannot sleep), this means that he is tense and upset about a matter.
-Don't argue with your son, make fun of him, or always give advice and sermons.
- Especially listen to your son when he returns from school, when he goes to sleep, and when he seems to have strong feelings of discomfort and sadness.
-Get down to your son's level physically when you listen to him, as this gives him reassurance and a sense of closeness to you.
-Hold him to your chest when he is upset or sad, so you give him more opportunity to express.
- Encourage him to talk, and vent what is going on in himself.
- Avoid giving advice when the child is in a state of anger, do not say to him: (I told you before not to do that.
-Listen to what your son wants to say about his school or his activities.
-Make your son feel that he is an important person for his mother and father, and treat him with objectivity and respect.
-Do not embarrass your son, underestimate him, or mock his opinions in front of others.
-Do not use insulting and humiliating expressions: (You are an idiot, silly, crazy, or a liar).
-Encourage him to look at others when he talks to them.
- Let your children give their opinions and points of view.
- Do not say to your child when he gets excited: (You have become a man, and men do not cry), so he will learn how to suppress his feelings and emotions as if they do not exist.
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