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You know that your children are the most important thing in your life, there is no doubt about that - but do they know that? In most cases, it is not difficult for you to provide them with your love and attention, but this may be somewhat difficult if your thoughts and feelings are occupied with something else; When you are anxious, stressed, or deeply sad, it may not be easy for you to remember to take care of your children first.
In those dark moments, your natural ability to pay attention and patience will be put to the test, and suddenly it will be hard to find the time to read or rock your baby a bedtime story, let alone go shopping together or play football together. When things are difficult, you will find that your children get less than expected from you. Rather, they may get more nervous because your nerves.
I know you may have nothing to do about it; there are things in life that take up your time, make you quick to be angery, and cause distress to those around you. For example, if you are selling your house, if your mother is very ill, if your boss is about to fire you, or if one of your children is in the hospital, then you will not be in your normal cheerful state - and no one can expects you to be.
Some crises are short-lived, while others may last for weeks, months, or even years. You'll likely be able to take care of yourself then, but prioritizing and caring for your children may be the best thing to do - it will allow you to focus outside of yourself, stop whining, and give you a reason to fight the crisis.
In fact, the best way to make sure they know that you care about them is to actually do so. If you let your thoughts be self-pity, it will come out on you, and even if you have a good reason to feel sorry for yourself, your children will notice that you care more about yourself. And if you don't want that to happen, and you want them to know that you care about them more than anything else, be sure to show them - and they'll understand. Sometimes they may complain that you no longer do this or that as you used to before, but inside they will be sure that they are really the most important thing in your life.
If you let your mind be confined to self-pity, it will be apparent to you.
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