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Fathers and mothers should realize the responsibilities they have towards their children and learn them with eagerness. Children should also welcome the guidance and useful advice of their families, because it is the result of long experiences.
And if parents and children sought to evaluate and know each other’s ideas, feelings, and desires, trust would be established in all of them towards each other, In such a situation, parents will not resort to harassing their children for no reason and criticizing them for the simplest things, and they will not expect from a child that has not yet completed its growth and is still living in their care more than its capacity, and the children in turn will accept some restrictions, and act on the advice and guidance of their parents
It is unfortunate that some uneducated parents unconsciously oppose the natural rights of their children to achieve autonomy and liberation, and consider that this innate desire lurking in the depths of their children is the result of their arrogance, insolence, and selfishness, and as a result signs of strife and defiance appear in the vicinity of their families, to dissipate the heat The friendliness, tenderness and intimacy with which they were blessed may have pushed the children to rebellion and disobedience, and thus to sin and vice.
gratuitous harshness:
Some parents who have good intentions but cannot understand their children’s psychology and needs often make the same educational mistakes that their parents committed towards them.
They have forgotten the problems and difficulties that they faced during their youth, and they do not know that their wrong way of thinking and what they suffer from moral and ethical deficiency, is a result of their fathers and mothers raising them, as they may be of good intentions, but they practiced cruelty without justification due to ignorance. Such parents may ask themselves, why do our children flee from us? And why don't they consult us about any work they do?
(During puberty, the center of the feeling of love changes, and the feeling of love towards the family is only a small part of the boy’s feelings. Sometimes crises arise in the relationship between father and son that lead to a kind of apathy and aversion, especially among boys with rebellious natures in the face of tyrannical fathers and mothers.. Sometimes another type of feeling dominates, namely the sense of hostility and rivalry that may overthrow family relations, where the boy begins to rebel and disobey, then flees from the parenting house after he uses the vices of speech to end up in eternal abandonment.
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