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Moral compatibility between a man and a woman at a rate of 100 percent is impossible, and it is impossible to find a woman and a man who are identical with each other in terms of morals and taste, except for the infallible ones such as Al-Imam Ali (peace be upon him) and Fatima Al-Zahra (peace be upon her). For others, it is impossible, and as psychologists say: (Differences at home are normal).
There are two people who want to live with each other by force. There will be clashes and differences. But what should be done so that these differences do not destroy the love between spouses?
The attribute of forgiveness must dominate our lives, it must become an attribute for every woman and man, and if (forgiveness) is in your life, not only the atmosphere of the house becomes warm, but you can coexist in society better, and your nerves will not be weakened by the pressures in society. However, if this quality is not present in our lives, not only will the atmosphere of the house be disturbed, but the difference will destroy love and may lead to divorce and dispersion, and you will be expelled from society and you will not be able to coexist with it, and your nerves will weaken at that time. So the woman should forgive the man should also forgive in order to establish warmth and love in the home.
Spouses have to turn a blind eye to each other's shortcomings. The Qur’an says: {They are a clothing for you and you are a clothing for them} [Al-Baqara: 187], for a man’s deficiency is a woman’s deficiency, and a woman’s deficiency is a man’s deficiency. The man must cover up the shortcomings of the woman, and the woman must cover up the shortcomings of the man. Which is (forgiveness) as mentioned in the Qur’an.
... If you want love to rule the house, do not be negative, and today I say that if you want forgiveness to rule your life and not see the bad deeds of others, especially those in the house, you should not be negative, look at the positives. It is recognized that your wife has many privileges, and so does the husband. When a dispute occurs, remember the good deeds and say that if my husband's morals are bad, he cares about us, and if he objects a lot, I know that he loves me. And if the wife does not know how to cook, say that there is nothing wrong with that, because she is a chaste woman. Speak good advice, forgive, and look at her good deeds when angry. The wife should do the same. When you look at him and he came frowning, say thank God he came frowning and not broken.
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