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A shared life needs a strong factor to keep it sustainable and ongoing, if two people wanted to travel together for a week they would need common ground that attracts them to travel together and to bear one another.
As for married life, and because it is the journey of a lifetime, as they say, it needs strong attraction factors that drive both parties to live together and travel together on the path of life. Moreover, these attractions are many, including: Children, as they are the fruit of married life that strengthens the bonds of the spouses and strengthens their common bonds.
Marriage goals:
Multiple goals: human integration, a sense of tranquillity and stability, satisfying the marital aspect, and the continuation of the human race.
Children bring with them a sense of joy and spread happiness in the house. The father feels elated when he sees the delight of his eye crawling on the ground, while the mother feels that she has found an outlet for her explosive emotional stock, so she floods her new born with that divine overflow of tenderness.
Children are the natural extension of parents and they are one of the links of the sense of perfection in humans.
The child is watching:
The presence of the child will impose itself on the behaviour of the spouses towards each other, the man will take all precautions while talking and will avoid as much as possible from using hurtful words and talk that would provoke his wife, and in return the woman will be more vigilant in her attitudes towards her husband and her dealings with him. The couple will be keen to provide a calm atmosphere full of warmth and tenderness for their child to enjoy happiness.
A child is a new burden:
Some people think that children are just new burdens added to their burdens, and therefore some couples are determined not to have children for a period in order to enjoy life more and more.
Moreover, if some think that children will be factors that disturb the course of marital life, then they are unaware that the arrival of the child will eliminate the family disorder and will be an important factor in establishing the foundations of stability and love between the spouses and strengthening their common bonds.
In our opinion, it is necessary for spouses to think about raising children in the early days of their marriage. This issue, in addition to being a human and legal duty, has a major role in arbitrating marital bonds. Perhaps those times that parents spend with their children are among the happiest and most joyful times.
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