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We are curious about that child who, as soon as he meets another child, shows his bullying by assaulting him, such as hitting his face, or snatching his toy from his hand and running away with it?
It is indeed a strange scene. Where is the innocence, purity and angelic nature in this child? Why is he a bully and aggressive?
There are certainly many reasons and motives that make a child a bully and aggressive, the most important of which are:
First: Selfishness and their feeling of the presence of a competitor who is trying to monopolize praise and flattery, which makes them feel jealous, especially if he is compared to those his age.
Second: The presence of something that prevents them from achieving their dreams and desires, so they become overcome by a state of anger and resentment, and their reactions are characterized by hostility.
Third: Depriving the child of playing and having fun and restricting his movements, so he feels pressure and constriction, which makes him angry and upset, and images of rebellion and bullying appear on him.
Fourth: Pushing away his fears, as some children live in a state of fear inside of people, so he adopts a defensive approach to anything issued by others towards him, as he imagines that the children in front of him are his enemies and thinks that they want to steal his things or harm him, so he gets the better of them!
Fifth: The presence of some psychological pressures as a result of the child suffering from contradictions and psychological disorders for educational or genetic reasons; he is overcome by a mysterious feeling that pushes him to be hostile to those around him even if they are not at fault in that.
Sixth: Envy and jealousy, as the child's horizon is limited, as he cannot stand seeing others superior and ahead of him, so he carries in his chest what makes him aggressive and bullying.
Seventh: Insult, contempt and mockery push some children to be rebellious towards those who insult them, and even become psychologically unbalanced, and interpret anything as an insult to him, or mocking him, so his reaction is very fierce.
Eighth: Aggressive behaviour may arise in young children due to their feeling of hunger and their need for food, especially when food is delayed.
Ninth: Excessive interference in children's choices, and depriving them of free expression in choosing and playing, they will take revenge and deal aggressively.
Tenth: Incorrect upbringing and negative family nutrition that the child experiences due to the harsh mood of his parents and their dry style, and he may be exposed to beatings by them or by one of the family members, which makes him aggressive and savage.
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