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They have reached the threshold of a closed door of understanding ***** and they no longer want to live with each other.
Her: It is impossible for me to live with him!! **** Him: There is no way I will spend the rest of my life with her!
But they are hesitant to make the decision to separate???
There is a bond between them that cannot be divided??? They have children!!!
Many things can be separated into parts except a person’s feelings, especially a small child,
Is there a solution other than divorce? If we ask, what is the benefit of divorce?
Perhaps the most important benefit that divorced people imagine is that they will get rid of the burden of an annoying husband or wife.
They feel peace of mind and look forward to a better future
In order for this to be achieved, can there be a solution that provides this benefit? Without divorce?
Ensuring that the family edifice remains tall without resorting to divorce as a solution to a marital relationship burning with the flames of problems
The solutions may seem ideal, but their value will be confirmed if we compare this to the depth of the disadvantages and harms of divorce:
The first method: Live separately for a period of time
They agreed to stay away from the home so that each party would leave, even from the children - even if this was harsh - and for a period of time, so that each party could think calmly and relaxed and rebuild their system of thinking towards the other, while at the same time tasting the bitterness of distance.
The second method: Agree on a party to be with you
Introduce a third party, provided that you respect him and are ashamed to refuse any request for him to stay with you at home to be a mediator in organizing the relationship and contribute to the decisions between you for a period of time that you specify. You will find yourself facing a system that you both must respect.
The third method: “Absence may be a wonderful solution.”
Let one of you decides to leave the house voluntarily and willingly for a period of time and live in isolation in order to calm down.
The fourth method: Agreeing on a revocable divorce without its judicial consequences in the courts, and agreeing to return during the waiting period, which is three months, as Islamic law has permitted the spouses to withdraw from the divorce decision during that period and meet in the marital home without a new contract, which is a wonderful opportunity for the spouses to avoid their situation.
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