Getting rid of bad thoughts about people
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What is meant by bad thoughts is not those mental imaginings that occur in the mind without choice. Rather, what is meant by bad suspicion is the bad imaginings that a person develops in his mind and tracks in the world of imagination and mind and deduces bad results from the premises that he formulates, then bases his behavior on the basis of... These are artificial fantasies.

Among the ways to treat this moral illness are:

First: We must correct ourselves so that we do not fall - in the field of comparison between ourselves and others - into the danger of judging their corruption. In the stage of self-reformation, we must - in addition to banishing ugly qualities - see that others are not evil, but rather that they may possess spiritual qualities that are higher and loftier than our own.

Second: We must reform the environment in which we live, as this environment may be the factor in creating bad thoughts in our souls. This means that we do not sit with people who are not upright in their behavior, and we strive to associate with good people so that others do not have bad thoughts about us, in addition to... to benefiting from the high ideas and outstanding qualities which these good people possess.

Third: We must be careful not to rush to judge others in an unjustified manner, and we should also reduce our expectations from others. If we see, for example, a friend, family member, or others who did not respond to our greeting, or they passed by where we were standing, and did not pay attention to us, or did not invite us to a specific feast, instead of carrying hatred in our hearts and harboring evil thoughts, and judging them, we should observe the issues with all reason and without bias, and then guide their previous behavior in a good direction.

Islamic narrations advise Muslims to hold the actions and words of their Muslim brothers true, and to propose correct possibilities in order to get rid of mistrust and keep it from their minds.

Imam Al-Sadiq (peace be upon him) says: (If a believer accuses his brother, faith dissolves from his heart just as salt dissolves in water).

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