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While you can control much of what goes on in your home and how you react to it, there may be certain factors affecting your family that you cannot control – such as losing your job or death of a relative, becoming seriously ill, moving to a new city, or changing Your child's school, divorce, remarriage, or a national tragedy. These changes often force the entire family, not just the shy child, to move around and adapt to new circumstances.
Sometimes moving means that the family itself changes, as when a new child is born. Some studies have shown that the birth of a new child in the family causes shyness for some children, while older children get used to participating - or sometimes competing for parents' time and attention, and this is sometimes known as brotherly jealousy. The matter depends on the age group of the older child, and it seems that if the child is at least two years old, he will often coexist with the new newborn without much difficulty. If you have children whose time space is less than two years, you should know that the older child may require more time and attention from you, so pay attention to his behavior and try to spend more time with him alone and let him help you in taking care of the affairs of the newborn, perhaps by making him watch you while you feed him and help him to Putting on his clothes, he will see that the newborn is his brother or sister and not a competitor for your love.
Whatever the reason, these changes cause shame or social withdrawal, not only for children, but for parents as well. Ideally, once you find a firm footing and establish a good resting area, those withdrawal feelings will dissipate and eventually disappear. But of course we don't live in a perfect world, and sometimes those feelings linger for longer than we'd like.
The most important thing to remember is that regression (regression into behaviors of a younger age), persistence in wrong behavior, or withdrawal are normal and common reactions. Sometimes we back down during difficult times, or when we are confused by new circumstances and places, but the important thing is what we do during times of stress, do we become depressed or do we feel like we will never have control over the new situation? Do we reward ourselves for storming into the situation, or do we send someone to feel our way before we take any step into the world around us? Do we resort to advice and support, or do we turn away from ourselves everyone who can give us a helping hand?
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