Your personality achieves a lot for you, so attractiveness and dynamism can make others love you.
1- Make your steps daring, confident of yourself, and your eyes looking forward to the goal of what you can achieve for yourself and by yourself.
2- Shake hands with others firmly, and avoid shaking hands with soft hands, as it is a characteristic of those who are not confident in themselves, as well as avoid shaking hands with very strong hands, as others may feel that you are either an arrogant and authoritarian person or that you deceive them with your strength of personality and lack confidence in yourself,
Raise your head up, straighten your shoulders, and walk at a confident pace.
3- Make the tone of your voice express confidence so that it reaches people before your thoughts. Speak with a voice that reflects courage, clearly and without hesitation.
4- Be courteous. If you want people to like you, be passionate about them. Never let your tongue betray you. Being able to speak with courtesy increases your sweetness and increases your influence on people regardless of their differences.
5- Add the characteristic of enthusiasm to your personality and act with enthusiasm.
6- You have to be patient with the opinions and ideas that you do not agree with, because one of the secrets of an attractive personality is to listen consciously with appreciation and sympathy for the opinions of others, and to accept others and let them be relaxed when they are with you.
7- Be of a decent appearance, for a decent appearance earns you self-respect and a sense of confidence and reassurance.
8- Others should know that you value them and appreciate their value, treat them on the basis that they have a value for you, and always thank them, and make them feel that you appreciate them.
Reality Of Islam
The first student of Islam, Al-Imam Ali-Ibn- Abi Talib (peace be upon him) said: "Worshiping acts is like a drop of water in the sea of directing to righteousness, and what is better than directing to righteousness is saying the right at the presence of an oppressor"
The German theoretical physicist and the key pioneer of quantum mechanics said:
"The first gulp from the glass of nature sciences will turn you into an atheist, but at the bottom of the glass, God is waiting for you"
A man who lies to himself , and believes his own lies becomes unable to recognize truth , either in himself or in anyone else , and he ends up losing respect for himself and for others. When he has no respect for anyone , he can no longer love , and , in order to divert himself , having no love in him, he yields to his impulses , indulges in the lowest forms of pleasure , and behaves in the end like an animal . And it all comes from lying - lying to others and to yourself . FYODOR DOSTOEVSKY
And it all comes from lying - lying to others and to yourself .